This time I would like to talk about the expectations you hold for yourself. We have thousands of expectations of how the world should or shouldn´t be, but what is causing us the most pain are the expectations we think we should fulfill. There is nothing more beautiful than believing you are capable of anything and then letting yourself go into the direction of your desire. However, there is a shadow aspect of the hope we have for ourselves. To be more accurate, I am not even talking about your hopes for yourself, I am talking about the beliefs you have picked up along the way and that you now…
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Becoming the authentic you
If you don´t know your truth yet, there will come a time and it will come very soon when you will be no longer able to live with your Self unless you allow your true self to be expressed. I know that to be who we truly are in our heart is the scariest thing we will ever do here on the surface of the Earth, however, the freedom of living as the real you is beyond measure and beyond any external prize. Today I will provide you with just one tip on how to live your truth. If you are scared like me and like everyone else that you…
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You don´t need to be positive to be free
Did you ever think about the way we think? It may sound strange, but let me explain. When you sit quietly or when you try to meditate and observe your thoughts, you will most likely find out that thoughts simply arise without you doing much. They come and go and they trigger certain emotions in your body depending on whether they are in synch with who you truly are or not. Therefore, you can immediately stop beating yourself up for not always thinking positively. The truth is that thoughts arise in our consciousness based on what we heard when we were growing up and based on what we have believed…
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The process of building your strenght
You went through all your challenges and you arrived at the other side with more grace and with a new perspective. The challenging moments cleared your sight and the wisdom that you realized is within you, showed you how the loving consciousness sees you in comparison with how you see yourself. Where you thought that you were weak, love showed you your strength. When you forgot your own worth, your heart reminded you that you can´t pretend not to see your value anymore, because people in your life will always follow the example you give them. When you thought that you were dependent on someone else´s mercy, love showed you…
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Don´t try to be everything to everyone, just be all you need to be
For years I equated being kind with respecting everyone else´s feelings and not making them feel uncomfortable. I got trapped in a mental loop, where I sorted through my thoughts, words and actions in order not to hurt anyone, but on the other side, I was blind to the fact that sometimes it meant holding back my whole truth, not expressing myself in a way I wanted to or dumbing myself down, so others won´t feel uncomfortable in my presence. Until it got to the point where I unconsciously started to suppress my inner voice, because I was afraid that my words or actions might offend someone. If you are…
