The anxious sensation in a woman´s body makes her feel like she cannot live without that ONE specific person (partner). It prevents her from seeing the pattern of attaching anxiously as something that is coming up consistently regardless of who she is with. To make things worse, this pattern is prone to choosing (subconsciously – often it feels like she has no control over it) partners who will help her play out her worst fears and thus trigger the anxious stress response over and over again. Which can be extremely tiring and create even more hopelessness around having a healthy supportive partnership. … Continue readingHow to stop waiting to be chosen