• Connection & Lifestyle

    You are a creator of your relationships

      In the old paradigm we sought relationships to get something from other people, to reach a sense of security and to distract ourselves from our solitude. We got married because it was convenient and we fell in love because the other person made us feel whole. We were persuaded that we needed that person in our life and we were using our relationships with other people to make ourselves feel better. However, this old paradigm is not working and it won´t work anymore. We are all wondering how comes that other people drive us crazy and there is no button left that your “better half” haven´t pushed, yet. Nevertheless,…

  • Connection & Lifestyle

    The new way of being

      I invite you to put aside all that you have thought is true about yourself, your worthiness and the value you have in this world and to come with me on a journey of revealing your true nature. Just for now, let´s see beyond all the concepts of achieving and trying hard. I know that your mind is going to rebel against the idea of gain without pain and peace without sacrifice. This is why you have to read with your heart instead of pondering the words in your mind. The feeling of joy is never lying and it is going to show you the way to your truth. Listening to…

  • Inspiration

    What if you fly?

    It doesn´t matter how many times you stumble and it doesn´t matter how many times you stop believing. In the moment you decide again with your whole heart that you belong to love and love only and that the fear you felt is not going to rob you of your freedom, not now and not ever, the divine design is going to rearrange all the relationships and all the circumstances so your outer world can match your inner state of freedom. There is no coincidence possible in the universe created by love itself. Every time you stumble, it is because you have been looking in the wrong direction and relying…

  • Inspiration

    The highest authority lies within you

      It is time to stop battling with life and to stop covering up the voice that is guiding us from the inside. You don´t have to deserve happiness. You don´t have to strive for the expression of your purpose. You don´t have to kneel before God to receive what is yours. I find myself denying again and again the goodness of life and the abundance that surrounds me. It seems that this belief in the lack and in our inadequacy is so ancient and so ingrained in our minds that at times it is impossible to let it go and to transcend it. We have been told again and…

  • Inspiration

    You are enough

      With the beginning of the new year and with the weight of all of the expectations you are carrying in your heart I would like to remind you something. More precisely, I would like to remind you one thing and that is that you are enough, my darling friend. You might think that you need to try harder this time or that you should improve yourself, so you can be seen as worthy in your own eyes and in the eyes of others. I bet you want to put more effort into whatever you do, so you can be sure that you will deserve whatever it is you want to…

  • Connection & Lifestyle

    How to find your purpose

      I am going to start with transcending one of the most repeated lies and that is that you can figure your purpose out. No, you can´t. Period. I have suffered over this “advice” for long enough to be able to see clearly now that it simply is not true. You can only know your purpose and if this knowing is real it won´t come from your mind or you analyzing it. It is going to come in a form of gentle love that is going to feel like happiness, like being connected to who you really are and like finally coming home. All of these feelings are going to…

  • Inspiration

    A reminder for when you are feeling broken

      When the highs of life are replaced by the lows, it seems like the suffering is never going to go away. I am usually very naïve about this, because the eternal optimist in me always believes that if I am happy right now, there won´t come a time when I will be sad again and that if I know better today, I won´t be tempted to do it the same old way tomorrow. So, if you have found yourself in one of those famously infamous lows, I would like to hold your hand while you read the following words, wipe away a few tears from your lovely face and…

  • Inspiration

    Oh baby, you should go and love yourself

      If there was one thing I could give you, it would be an understanding that looking for love outside of yourself is hopeless. No matter how many times you are going to try to find it there, no matter what your aunt or your friend told you, love is not in that one special person. Or any other person. And the sooner you make peace with it, the sooner you can start loving yourself. I don´t want you to suffer for longer than I had suffered, before the truth finally dawned on me. Every time you try to manipulate, force or trick someone into liking you, it is only…

  • Practice

    Three keys to lasting success

      Everyone wants to succeed in their own life and in their own way, but most of the times we are too lost to know how or we are focused on the wrong things altogether. Here are three practices that help me to stay connected to who I am and from there you can´t not succeed: Key #1: Cultivate the connection to your inner wisdom I believe there is a power greater than us, always guiding us and helping us transcend our fears, worries and limited perceptions of people and situations we find ourselves in. Some people call it God, Universe or Source. Whichever label you decide to use, the…

  • Connection & Lifestyle

    How to get where you want to be?

      When I was a teenager, I used to sit in the garden in front of our house, during hot summer evenings, and I would look at the planes drawing white lines across the sky. Even now, when I´m writing these words, I can clearly remember that I wanted to sit on one of those planes and I wanted to fly somewhere far, far away. And where did I want to go? I definitely had some ideas in my mind but, basically, I thought that anywhere else would be better than where I was at that moment. I believed that all of my problems would disappear once I was gone and that my happiness was waiting for me someplace warm…