The truth is that you are doing so much better than you allow yourself to think. If you looked on all the mistakes and all the regrets you are still holding against yourself, you would see that they only brought you closer to your heart. And, now, when you came to know your heart, it … More Forgive yourself
In the old paradigm we sought relationships to get something from other people, to reach a sense of security and to distract ourselves from our solitude. We got married because it was convenient and we fell in love because the other person made us feel whole. We were persuaded that we needed that person in … More You are a creator of your relationships
When the highs of life are replaced by the lows, it seems like the suffering is never going to go away. I am usually very naïve about this, because the eternal optimist in me always believes that if I am happy right now, there won´t come a time when I will be sad again and … More A reminder for when you are feeling broken
Every now and then I tend to find myself in an emotional state which is difficult to describe, however, I am sure – in one way or another – you have experienced it, as well. To an outside observer your life would seem just fine, there isn´t any particular reason for you to be unhappy, … More Why are you feeling lost?
OK, so, I´m sure that what I´m going to write about you´ve experienced at a certain point in your life, too. If you´re a bit like me, you´ve experienced it at several points and maybe you´ve even experienced it today. It starts something like this: you find yourself in a situation where you feel a … More The calling of light
The world doesn´t have the power to make you into something that you are not. Fear is loud and it is trying to silence the truth in you. However, love has always the last word. We can´t pretend forever to be something we are not. The price is too high and the result is resistance … More The radical power of joy
It´s easy to find peace when we have a 10-year life plan and everything is running smoothly for us. It´s somewhat more difficult to be at peace when your life is suddenly out of control. Do you know those moments when you think you did everything as you should, but life didn´t turn out the … More Releasing worries and getting comfortable with the unknown