Do You Really Attract Who You Are?

You´ve probably heard it said that you attract who you are. This is one of those half-truths, that if we hear it being said often enough, we start believing. The effects of oversimplified advice like this one, especially on a woman for whom love feels hard and through her circumstances she has learned that she has to earn the right to enjoy life, can be heartbreaking.
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When the Inner Work doesn´t Work

“He didn´t call me and it hurts so much again. I don´t know what to do…“ Many of my clients have already gone through therapy and countless programs, they are successful in other areas of their life, but still can feel this way about a man they are in a platonic relationship with (I call it the fantasy relationship). … Continue readingWhen the Inner Work doesn´t Work