Are you creating a safe space for your desires to land in?
Taking ownership is realizing that you´re the source of your emotional safety and security.
Emotional codependency creates neediness and neediness creates an atmosphere of urgency hopelessness, and frustration >>> the greatest attraction killers.
The path of the feminine embodiment is the path of inner mastery. This path is very simple, but not easy… certainly a road less traveled.
Taking ownership of our beliefs and emotions IS exposing. Exposing to our fears, insecurities, and triggers.
But if you want a shortcut to your desires, this is it.
The more you embody inner safety and security (by healing the inner war between masculine and feminine polarities and by reparenting the inner child/subconscious mind) the less codependent and more magnetic you become.
Once you release the urgency and honor/enjoy your desires, without feeling hopeless when you´re thinking about them, they´ll start flocking to you one by one.
Because you´ve become a safe space.
When you don´t feel worthy, you´re not a safe space.
When you don´t feel enough, you´re not a safe space.
When you don´t feel deserving, you´re not a safe space.
When you´re not honest with yourself, you´re not a safe space.
When you don´t trust yourself, you´re not a safe space.
You become a safe space by healing your triggers and taking ownership of your emotions no matter what´s going on around you.
You become a safe space by respecting your desires, values, and boundaries.
You become a safe space by realizing that your body, mind, and spirit are sacred and so you take full ownership of your needs, beliefs, and connection to Source/God/truth.